behind the details

I didn’t always know this was the work. But looking back, it always was.

I co-wrote a book on alignment with my wife Alisha. I call myself a recovering perfectionist, not as a disclaimer, but because chasing perfection long enough teaches you something more valuable: alignment is more livable, and ultimately more true, than perfect ever could be.

This is where I document the decisions behind my own home, one by one. Not by telling you what to choose, but by helping you trust what you already know.